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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 27.06.2025 01:31

How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What I need from you?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

That's it for today.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Ask yourself:

Procrastinates a lot.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.